Momentum. It’s a term used primarily in physics to describe the force gained through motion that allows something to grow stronger or faster as time passes. Phonetically, the word “momentum” lends itself to the feeling of forward motion and direction. Since those are both things that I wanted to experience more of in my business, I choose it as my word for 2016.
In my five years as a life coach, there have been months that I felt like an unstoppable train on the path to six figures, and some I felt like a stalled car on the side of the road without a map. Even though I was always very busy doing what I was supposed to do in the day-to-day activities, I needed to find out what was really going on under the surface so that I could experience consistent momentum. I started doing some inner work and made a few important discoveries.
Get clear on your identity and own it
The first step to experiencing true momentum and long-term success is to fully step into your identity as an entrepreneur. If you notice that you have a hard time telling people what you do or fully explaining your business, you may be shrinking back from fully owning it. The reason many of us entrepreneurial women don’t fully embrace our identity is that deep down inside is that we don’t fully accept and respect ourselves. Notice what parts of yourself you might be judging and not accepting. You may be holding yourself back because you feel like you can’t own your role until you are thinner, have more money in the bank, or have more years of experience. Owning your identity involves making a choice to reject the identity of “not quite good enough” and claiming your right to fully step into your role just as you are. There will always be areas of growth and learning, but when you fully embrace the identity of being the CEO of your business and your life, you will spark momentum into motion.
Recognize and release limiting beliefs
J.K. Rowling was a single mom on welfare when she was working on her first book. It would have been easy for her to fall into the trap of believing that being a successful writer was not possible for her which would have sabotaged her potential success, yet she ended up writing a series of books that defined a generation. Often we procrastinate and stagnate because we are unintentionally hindering our own success with our limiting beliefs. A limiting belief is a way of viewing the world that causes you to arrive at limiting conclusions about what is possible. These usually come from significant people or situations from the past and present and result in beliefs such as “Who do you think you are”, “Success requires suffering”, “Making a lot of money will turn you into a bad person”, and “You are not smart enough to do that”. These beliefs paralyze you into doubt and inaction, and then become a self-fulfilling prophecy.
One way to release a limiting belief is to look for evidence of what you want to believe. One limiting belief I used to hold was that because I have a special needs child that my life will always have extra challenges and I won’t be able to run a successful business. Once I became aware of this belief, I became open to finding evidence of it’s opposite. No surprise that within a few months, I had met two women who had successfully raised their special needs child while running a thriving business. As you are open to changing the preconceived notions that you had about yourself and about what is possible for you, you will discover evidence to create your new reality.
Shift to empowering thoughts
The most important step in claiming momentum is at the thought level. By paying attention to your thoughts, you have the powerful opportunity to stop the uphill climb of limiting beliefs and experience the positive, ongoing force of momentum through your empowered thoughts. In order to leverage your thoughts in your favor, you first need to become self-aware of what is going on in your head. You must recognize when you are stuck in old patterns of negative thinking, and refuse to allow yourself to stay there. As you become aware of your disempowering thoughts, you can be intentional about using your thoughts as the ultimate source of your new positive momentum.
For example, let’s say you meet someone at a networking event who is in a similar industry and very successful. You notice that after the meeting that you are really feeling bad about yourself. In that moment, listen to the negative self-talk going on in your head. Next, deliberately refuse to continue in that pattern and then choose what you are going to think instead. Focusing on mantras and affirmations are very powerful in helping you make these deliberate shifts. Choose phrases such as “I am on my way more and more each day”, “I am perseverant”, “I like who I am becoming”. Each time you replace the disempowering inner dialogue with intentional powerful thoughts, your momentum train picks up speed.
When you shift to empowering thoughts, you begin to create new beliefs about yourself and what is possible for your business. Remember that this is an ongoing process not an event. It is an intentional mindset shift that gets easier and more effortless with practice. Stay dedicated to this process and it will begin to be second nature for you. You will wake up in the morning and feel a sense of purpose and direction. Because you consistently choose how you are going to think and believe, you clear the way to experience lasting momentum from the inside out. You truly become an unstoppable force confidently leading your business and impacting the world around you for years to come.